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How to Arrange a Cremation: For Yourself or a Loved One

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When someone close to you dies, or you’re thinking ahead about your own wishes, knowing how to arrange a cremation can remove stress and uncertainty. This guide explains how cremation works in the UK, with a focus on direct cremation, which is often the most affordable, straightforward choice.

Whether you’re organising a cremation for a loved one or preparing your own plan, this article answers the most common questions and offers practical advice. 

Key takeaways:

  • Direct cremation is a simpler, often more affordable alternative to a traditional funeral in the UK.
  • The process involves choosing a provider, registering the death, coordinating logistics, and then receiving or scattering the ashes.
  • A direct cremation can be significantly cheaper than a traditional funeral. 
  • Benefits include simplicity, affordability, and flexibility, allowing families to plan a memorial at their own pace.
  • Prepaid direct cremation plans are available to lock in today’s prices and ease future pressures on loved ones.

What is a direct cremation?

Direct cremation is the simplest form of cremation available. It involves cremating the person without a service at the crematorium. There’s no hearse, procession, and is generally an unattended cremation. Instead, family and friends say goodbye in their own way, often holding a memorial or celebration of life at a later date.

It’s private, flexible, and often much more affordable than a traditional funeral in the UK. Some families choose it because they want to avoid the stress of planning a formal event during a difficult time, while others feel more comfortable creating their own memorial on their terms.

With Aura, there’s also the option to attend a direct cremation ceremony with either an intimate funeral service or a fully attended cremation service. This can be a meaningful way for close family to be present, without the pressure of a formal event.

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How to arrange a cremation for a loved one

Planning a cremation can feel overwhelming at first, but direct cremation can make the process simpler. Here’s how to arrange one in the UK.

1. Choose a cremation provider

Start by finding a trusted provider. Look for clear pricing, caring staff, and real reviews on reputable websites like Trustpilot. We understand that comparing direct cremation providers could be difficult at an emotional time, so we hope this will help you come to a clear understanding of what to prioritise for you and your family.

Some funeral companies sell pre-packaged services that include optional extras you might not want or need. Others, like Aura, only charge for what’s essential, keeping things more affordable. Look for transparency, especially about collection fees, cremation times, and whether ashes are delivered or need to be collected.

Things to check:

  • Are they regulated and trusted by reviews?
  • Do they explain costs clearly?
  • Is support available by phone or online?
  • Will they handle all the paperwork?

2. Register the death and complete the paperwork

Before cremation can go ahead, you’ll need to legally register the death and submit the correct documents.

Here’s what’s normally needed:

  • Medical Certificate of Cause of Death (completed by a doctor): confirms the person’s passing and the reason they died. This will then be sent to the registrar’s office where you can formally register the death with the local authorities.
  • Death certificate (done with the local Register Office): After your appointment with the registrar, you will receive a death certificate and the form for cremation.
  • Cremation form 1 or A1 in Scotland (Gives formal permission for the cremation to take place): With Aura, you can always rely on our team of funeral experts known as the Aura Angels to assist in completing and submitting cremation forms to the crematorium on your behalf.

If the death is referred to the coroner or a post-mortem is required, the process may be slightly different, but your funeral provider or local hospital’s Bereavement Office can help.

3. Coordinate the cremation logistics

Once the documents are approved, the person who has died will be transported from their resting place to a funeral care centre in a private vehicle. Once they have been cared for and placed into their coffin, they will be cremated.

In a direct cremation, the actual cremation process is usually unattended, meaning no family or guests are present. However, some providers offer the option to witness, with a few people present, if that feels right for you.

You may also be offered the chance to:

  • Choose the time and date of an attended cremation, so close family can be present in a private and personal way
  • Choose the date of an unattended cremation, if you’d prefer not to attend but still want to know when it takes place
  • Select a piece or pieces of music to be played during the cremation 
  • Choose someone to officiate the service, such as a funeral celebrant or religious leader
  • Decide how ashes are returned, either hand-delivered to your home, collected in person, or scattered in the crematorium’s Garden of Remembrance

4. Receive or scatter the ashes

After cremation, the ashes can either be:

  • Hand-delivered to your home (offered by Aura within 21 days)
  • Collected from the crematorium (must be named on cremation form)
  • Scattered in the crematorium’s Garden of Remembrance

Some families take time before deciding how or if to collect the ashes. Others already have a plan in mind, from scattering ashes at a favourite spot, to keeping them in an urn or even more creative ash ideas, like creating ashes jewellery or putting ashes into tattoos.

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”Such an easy solution to arrange a cremation. Mostly done online, but the company was always there to answer any questions I had. No pushy staff hurrying me on made it a satisfying experience.“

—Bryan Ratcliffe | Trustpilot

How much does a direct cremation cost in the UK?

We understand that funeral expenses can feel overwhelming, especially when trying to balance affordability with honouring a loved one’s memory. While the SunLife Cost of Dying Report currently places the average cost of a funeral in the UK at approximately £4,285, direct cremation costs can be less than half this amount. Although the exact cost can vary by provider, region, and the additional services you choose, most families find it to be an affordable and respectful option.

Aura’s direct cremation service starts at £1,195 , which includes:

  • Collection from place of rest (fees apply if urgent)
  • Removal of medical devices like pacemakers
  • Simple coffin
  • Guidance and support from our dedicated team of Aura Angels
  • Private cremation
  • Cremation fees

*Terms and conditions apply. You will receive a funeral plan summary before purchase to help you understand the features, costs, and limitations.*

Benefits of choosing a direct cremation

Simplicity

With no formal events to organise, no venues to book, and no pressure to make emotional decisions under time constraints, direct cremation keeps things calm and private and gives you space to grieve.

Affordability

It’s one of the most cost-effective funeral options. You only pay for the essentials, with options for additional extras if you’d like. You’re free to use any money saved on a memorial service later, a family gathering, or a donation to charity.

Flexibility

Direct cremation is very unique as it offers the family of the person who has died freedom to create a personal memorial in their own way. Maybe it’s a gathering in your own backyard, an ash scattering ceremony at a favourite beach, or a simple toast with close friends. You’re not tied to a specific date or location, so you can take your time to plan something that feels right. This flexibility can allow for more thoughtful planning, even if it happens weeks or months after the cremation.

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Can I arrange my own cremation in advance?

Yes, and many people do.

With a prepaid direct cremation plan, you choose and pay for your cremation in advance, locking in today’s price. It means your loved ones won’t need to guess your wishes or worry about the cost later on.

Aura’s prepaid funeral plans start from £1,695, and include:

  • Everything needed for a cremation
  • Secure funds protection via a regulated trust
  • The option to cancel at any time for a full refund

It’s a practical way to remove anxiety for your family while keeping control over your final wishes.

*Terms and conditions apply. You will receive a funeral plan summary before purchase to help you understand the features, costs, and limitations.*

Things to consider before choosing direct cremation

  • Do you want a ceremony?
    If so, you may prefer a traditional or attended direct cremation. 
  • Will your family want a formal goodbye?
    Some families prefer a more traditional or structured event for closure. If you choose direct cremation, consider planning a later gathering. 
  • Are there cultural or religious needs?
    Certain traditions may require specific rites or involvement with the body. Check whether direct cremation aligns with your values or consult a spiritual advisor. 
  • Have you talked to your family?
    Sharing your wishes can prevent confusion later and make sure everyone understands the plan. 

Creative ways to honour someone after a direct cremation

You can mark someone’s life in a way that reflects who they were without following tradition.

Ideas include:

  • A picnic in their favourite park 
  • Scattering ashes during a coastal walk 
  • Planting a tree or wildflowers 
  • Creating a memory box or digital tribute page 
  • Holding a toast at home with music and photos 
  • Turning ashes into keepsake jewellery or artwork 
  • Writing letters and reading them aloud with close friends

Aura is here for you

Our team is always here to help. Whether it’s helping you decide on the details or providing guidance on how to talk with your loved ones about your wishes. Take some time to look through our articles and FAQs. You are also always welcome to get in touch when you are ready.

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FAQs

The process is simpler than most people expect. First, you’ll need to choose a trusted cremation provider and notify them of the death. Next, you must register the death with the local Register Office and complete the required cremation forms. Once the paperwork is in order, the provider will arrange the cremation itself, and afterwards you can decide whether you’d like the ashes returned to you, hand-delivered, collected, or scattered in the crematorium’s grounds.

Yes. This is exactly what a direct cremation offers: a cremation without a traditional service, hearse, procession, or ceremony at the crematorium. Families are free to organise their own memorial or celebration of life afterwards, if and when they feel ready.

The key documents are:

  • The Medical Certificate of Cause of Death (completed by a doctor)

  • Registration of the death with the local registrar

  • A Cremation 1 form or A1 form in Scotland, completed by the next of kin or applicant, which gives formal permission for cremation

With Aura, the Aura Angels provide guidance with all of this paperwork, ensuring nothing is overlooked or confusing.

Most direct cremations are unattended. However, some providers, including Aura, offer the option of an attended cremation, which gives you the chance to be present and say your goodbyes in person.

No. You don’t have to use a funeral home in your area. National providers like Aura often offer lower, clearer pricing and provide support by phone or online, making it easier for families who don’t want to visit a funeral home in person.

You’ll be able to decide how you’d like the ashes handled. Options include having them hand-delivered to an address in mainland Britain, collecting them from the crematorium, or asking for them to be scattered in the crematorium’s Garden of Remembrance. Many families choose to create a personal tribute later, such as a memorial gathering, planting a tree, or keeping ashes in an urn or jewellery.

For many people, yes. A prepaid plan allows you to lock in today’s price and make clear arrangements in advance, sparing your family from unexpected costs and difficult decisions. With Aura, funds are kept safely in trust, and plans can be cancelled at any time if you change your mind. For those planning ahead, it offers both financial protection and peace of mind.

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